Too Much Tuesday

An unusual thing happened this week. I got to hang out with Leo--just the two of us. See, usually it's Leo, me and Gus. Or Gus and me. Or Frank and Leo. But rarely is it Leo and me (at least since 2011). 

But Gus started back to school after Christmas break a day earlier than Leo so that left just us. We had been invited to play at Carrey's house and then I planned to take Leo to the mall to get new shoes. I told him we could do other fun things at the mall too. Leo suggested Build a Bear. I was thinking things that didn't cost hundreds of dollars like, look at the Lego store, go on the merry go round, maybe even take a ride on the overpriced train (it's $4 for a FIVE MINUTE ride!! They even charge the parents!!) just for old time's sake. 

I told Leo, "It'll be a date!" 

He said, "Ew!! I don't want to marry you!!" 

I said, "Fine. What do you want to call it?" 

He said, "Too Much Tuesday." 

Loved it. Way better than a date with your mom. 

So after we gladly dropped off a tantrum-throwing Gus ("I want to bring my sword in the car!!!") we headed to Carrey's for the play date. It was heavenly. I got to talk with the other moms, sip coffee, eat a delicious quiche. If Gus had been there, I would have had to hover around him, making sure he didn't tackle all the kids. And not long ago, I would have been doing the same thing with Leo. 

Then we set out for the mall. He walked beside me with such ease. Walking with him anywhere used to be such a struggle (as it is now with Gus). I used to compare it to pushing a grocery cart with a bad wheel. 

And he was agreeable and cooperative! He even (albeit reluctantly) came with me to peek in the American Girl doll store for about thirty seconds. Buying shoes (a Star Wars pair with Kylo Ren from Episode 7) was fun and easy. Browsing the Disney store, the Lego store...all calm and peaceful. This is such a contrast to how he is when he is with his brother (both wild and crazy, like caged animals). 

We then made our way to the food court and had a lovely lunch while Leo played with the little Lego people he had purchased. When I let him get ice cream at Chick Fila he said, "This really IS Too Much Tuesday!" 

I told him, "I like hanging out with you. When we divide up kids, I should get you more often, even though I know you like to hang out with daddy." 

Leo said, "I don't mind which one of you I hang out with. Some kids like one parent more than the other but I don't feel that way." 

He didn't add, "You're both equally awesome" but I think that's what he meant ;) 

The best thing that happened to us on our Too Much Tuesday was that I accidentally left my phone in the car. Sure, I never knew what time it was and I had to keep asking store clerks but it also meant I didn't check texts or emails and I didn't take pictures of our outing and post them to Facebook (even though I so badly wanted to write #toomuchtuesday). Leo had my undivided attention. 

So I have no photo evidence of this fun day with Leo. And that's okay. I do have this selfie we took two days before. I was trying to show him that we look alike. He wasn't buying it. Just like he didn't let me buy anything at the American Girl store. 

#toomuchtuesday